Knowing the signs that your new guy is just wanting a sexual relationship with you.
We have all dealt with this at some point in our relationships with men, so I am going to break it down for you on the signs he is just using you for sex and doesn’t want a relationship with you. Some of the signs are easy to overlook, but in all honesty you shouldn’t overlook his actions. His words mean nothing unless he shows it to you as well.
1. He only comes late at night. Now, I know sometimes men will come over after their bar hopping, but if he is only making that house call when he is drinking and it is late at night you should know he isn’t interested in anything else but a sexual relationship.
2. He always cancels plans with you. You are looking forward to hanging out with him and as soon as you are supposed to be ready to see him, he sends you a text saying he has to cancel. You are worth having someone show up on time and actually stick to their word! Do not make excuses for him constantly canceling!
3. He never takes you out in public. If you are wanting to date this man he should be taking you out! No excuses! If you two never leave your house or his house you need to start asking yourself why that is?
4. He tells you everything you want to hear, but doesn’t show you the things he says. Actions speak louder than words so if he is just filling you up with charming and charismatic words and not showing you that what he says is true it’s time to move on.
5. He is standoffish. He knows everything about you, but you know very little about him. Relationships are for learning about each other and see if you two are compatible. If he tells you very little about himself either he is hiding something or he just doesn’t want you to know.
These are the main signs that he is just using you for sex and does not want a relationship with you. Even if you are hurt that this is all he wants from you, ask yourself why you would want to be with someone who doesn’t want more from you than a sexual relationship.
